Ugrowingolder.com is a blogging website dedicated to educating both young and old people about some of life’s issues and how they may grow older in wisdom. In rendering this Consultancy services it has become imperative to get closer to readers by taking more realistic steps to provide solutions to individual problems.
In line with this direction this site has also developed a problem solving approach to interact with its readers.
Individual problems are numerous and diverse and this site can’t claim to have solution to every problem.
Specific areas have therefore been listed below from which solutions to problems arising from there could be given.
- 1. Counseling/Guidance on Courtship
Courtship is the time of life when a young person becomes particularly interested in someone of the opposite sex. During such a time there is great attraction for each other and life seems glamorous.
Handled wisely, courtship sets the pace for an ideal experience in marriage. But if it is enjoyed only for the thrills of the present experience, it can lead to disappointment and heartbreak.
Young people in courtship are encouraged to seek guidance here for tips that can lead them to the ideal experience in their marriage.
- Marriage Education
It has become increasingly necessary for young people who desire to marry to acquire some rudimentary knowledge about it first and foremost. I do not know of any place in the world where there is a formal school for learning about marriage in order to qualify for it, but the rate of divorce in Ghana and other parts of the world suggests that something very important is skipped before people marry. That is why marriage counseling is important since it provides young couples with the road-map to marriage and what to expect in it and how to handle unforeseen problems when they arrive.
You can request for specific or general advice from here.
- Advice on Relationship Issues
Do you have a special liking for someone? The person may or may not be your lover but let’s take someone you love. You love the person but have probably not been able to approach him/her due to one or two reasons. Tell me about it. I shall give you the guidance, or do it for you.
Then also you admire someone very much but not necessarily for love. May be there is an issue which is likely to spoil your admiration for him/her or, the issue is likely to spoil the person’s relationship with you. Is the issue bothering your mind? If so, just drop me a line. We shall solve it.
- Advice on Family Issues
This is almost the same as 3 above except that it involves family issues where one family member is not treating another well, or some father has neglected his responsibility towards his children, or a child is becoming increasingly stubborn and parents are frustrated.
Are you facing any problem from a member of your family that’s giving you sleepless nights? Just contact me with the details. You will help me to solve it for you.
- Advice on Moral Issues
Moral issues are matters of honesty and uprightness. If someone has a moral problem he/she is not able to distinguish between right and wrong and mostly does what is questionable. Is somebody not seeing his/her way clear about some issue?
- Guidance on Careers
Choosing a career in modern times need a careful consideration of how fast your country is developing and in what field, for e.g. technology, agriculture, commerce or manufacturing.
If you choose for example, fishing-at-sea whilst your country is land locked and the government focuses on planting of yams, you are going to be redundant for the time the government decides to shift to fishing unless you adapt yourself to another field to survive.
Everybody has a choice and you can go with yours unless you come to the y-junction and need direction.
- Advice on General Problems in Life
This is very wide and you may not know exactly what this implies. Well if you have a problem of any kind simply let me know. If it’s not my field I may redirect you to the exact place you will get help. Feel free to contact me.
I am not going to the Courts to do advocacy. What I mean is simply this. If you have wronged someone and need to beg for forgiveness, just channel it through me to do it for you if you feel you need someone to act on your behalf.
- Guidance on Growing Older in Wisdom
Read most of the posts on this site and you will grow wiser as you grow older.
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Name: Ebenezer Awuah
Mailing Address: P.O. Box 27, Nungua-Accra, Ghana.
Tel/WhatsApp No: +233 243 074 011
All advice shall be given for free up to 31st January, 2017.
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